I was halfway to losing myself - and my baby
Carol Page, 67, a retired nurse and mother of three, lives
with her husband John in Perthshire, Scotland.
She says: 'It should have been the moment I held my daughter
in my arms. Instead, after a gruelling labour that lasted over 24 hours, my
baby was whisked away as the midwives treated me.
'I could sense the panic around me as the medical team
painfully pushed and pulled on my abdomen, blood seeping out.
Carol Page, 67, had a near death experience after giving
birth to her daughter 40 years ago
'Then, suddenly, the pain lifted and I was fading, floating
above my body.
'Though I could still hear the voices of the nurses,
everything was quiet, gentle and a beautiful pinky white colour.
'I wanted to stay in this pain-free and happy place, but
then I heard the wail of my daughter and knew I had a responsibility to her and
my two year-old son, Benjamin, waiting at home.
'Just as I made the choice to return, I heard a voice say
‘Christ, she’s back!’ and I slammed back into my body, where it was red, black
and enveloped in pain.
'I remained in hospital for five days and had numerous blood
transfusions to replace the huge amounts I’d lost.
'When I held Rachel in my arms after those scary few
hours, I was so relieved and happy.
' was halfway to losing her — and myself — but thankfully, I
managed to hold on.
'Forty years later, we still talk about it.'
Saved by my late grandmothers
Susanna Omuri said she had a vision of her late grandmothers
telling her 'not to join them'
Susanna Omuri, 30, from Chigwell, Essex, is a stay-at-home
mother to her 18-month-old daughter Isla.
She says: 'Almost 20 years ago, when I was 11, I visited a
friend’s house. They lived on a dangerous bend and as I began to cross the
road, a car came swerving around the corner.
'It hit me hard, throwing me 30ft into the air. At that
moment, suspended in the air above the car, time slowed and I got a clear
vision of my two grandmothers — who had died when I was young — standing in a
group of other people nearby, though I couldn’t recognise anyone else.
'They were shouting at me and saying I couldn’t join them.
Then they purposefully turned their backs on me.
'The next thing I remember was hitting the bonnet of the car
and then the road. I was in agony, but fully conscious the whole time.
'Despite being covered in bruises and suffering from shock,
thankfully I was relatively unharmed.
'An ambulance took me to the hospital and on the journey I
couldn’t stop thinking about how angry my grandmothers had seemed.
'The nurse told me that at the speed the car was going I
should have died, and would have done if I had landed in any other way.
'She said a fairy godmother must have been looking after me.
I was sent home that day.
'I was three when my first grandmother died and six when the
other passed away.
'Being so young when they died, I had only a hazy
recollection of what they looked like, but when I saw them at the moment of the
car accident they were as clear as day.'
Moment I knew my son was going to die
Angela Dent, 61, is a retired restaurant owner and mother of
three who lives with her husband, Ken, in Enfield, Middlesex.
She says: 'On Boxing Day morning 2012, my youngest son
Simon, 35 and the owner of a tapas restaurant, was smoking a cigarette on the
porch of his house.
'My husband Ken and I were staying with him, and I went out
to speak to him.
Angela Dent, 61, said she had a premonition predicting her
son's death
'As I looked at him, a strange calmness came over me. We
asked each other if we were OK and both said yes. In that moment, I got an
inexplicable feeling that I would never see him again and that he was going to
die.
'We held each other’s gaze.
'There was no sadness or smiling. It was strange and
unnerving, but I have never felt so certain of something before.
'I went back inside and into my bedroom and woke up my
husband Ken to tell him of my premonition because I felt so strongly that
something bad was going to happen. He told me not to be so silly.
'Simon went off to work a little later. That night at
3.37am, the phone rang when Ken and I were asleep in bed.
'I started crying, knowing it would be the news I had been
dreading.
'It was one of my son’s friends saying there had been a
terrible car accident and Simon was very badly hurt.
'We arrived at the scene of the accident, but our son had
already been pronounced dead.
'I was strangely numb, but knew that it was his time. I will
never forget that moment when we looked at each other and I just knew.'
Childhood near miss that still haunts me
Anne Sanderson, 64, believes she had a near-death experience
when she was a young child
Anne Sanderson, 64, a retired medical secretary, of
Larbert, in Falkirk, lives with her husband Derek, a landscape artist. They
have two grown-up children.
She says: 'I had a near-death experience 62 years ago when I
was just two. My twin sister, Lesley, and I had been put into our shared cot by
our mother, Susan.
'I recall the sparse but sunny room clearly, with its
linoleum on the floor. Lesley was standing in one corner of the cot and I
was standing opposite her when she suddenly sneezed.
'I got such a start that I fell over the raised cot side and
onto the floor. At the same time I had one of the strangest and most lasting
memories I’ve ever experienced.
'It was a dream-like scene where I found myself floating
high above Earth, looking down from outer space.
'The blackness was all around highlighting the colours I
could see below me — all blues, greens and yellows marking out the countries
and seas.
'I could see the entire globe so I must have been a long,
long way away. There was also a slender, silver cord attached to my left hand
side, reaching all the way back to Earth.
'I felt very tranquil as though it was the most natural
thing to be happening, even though I had no idea what I was looking at.
'This happened in 1951. No colour photos of the world like
that had yet been taken, let alone produced for a toddler to look at, and we
didn’t even have a black-and-white television. How could I have known what the
Earth looked like?
'Fortunately, it was not my time to go.
'I discovered much later that I’d cracked my collar bone. I
regained consciousness in the hospital and have gone on living for six
decades.'
White-robed man with a tranquil smile
Teacher Jan McPherson lives with her husband David, 68, a
retired civil servant, in Carmarthen. They have two children.
She says: 'Five years ago, I grew ill with a lung condition
called bronchiectasis which meant I had difficulty breathing.
'As my condition deteriorated, I had the same dream over and
over again.
'In it, I went to a wooden door with a brass handle. Every
time I tried to open the door it stayed closed.
Jan McPherson, from Ferryside, said she had a dream in which
she saw 'a man in white robes' while she was suffering with a lung condition
called bronchiectasis
One night the door opened and inside was a garden filled
with blond children playing by a waterfall.
'They had smiling, angelic faces and the air was filled with
laughter. I had an overwhelming feeling of calm. In the corner was a man in
white robes.
'He had a long, grey beard and hair and carried a stave,
rather like a shepherd’s.
'He had the most a tranquil smile I have ever seen and
radiated warmth and light.
'Soon, I knew it was time to return, but I felt sure I’d had
been privileged to witness such a scene.
'Over the next few days my condition began to improve. I
believe I was touched by healing hands and miraculously given strength from
somewhere that night.'
I was hovering 10ft above hospital bed
Bob Pendlebury, 63, a retired financial services manager,
lives in Hove, East Sussex.
Bob Pendlebury, 63, a retired financial services manager,
said he recalls floating ten feet above his hospital bed after an asthma attack
He says: 'Five years ago, I had an asthma attack that very
nearly killed me. I was at home with my wife when suddenly I felt very tired
and my breathing became difficult. Within minutes, I was struggling for each
breath and panicking.
'My wife, Nicole, rang for an ambulance and I was rushed to
A&E, where they gave me emergency drugs and adrenaline as I had stopped
breathing. I was convinced I was about to die.
'I blacked out in one of the emergency rooms while doctors
surrounded me, pulling tubes in and out of me.
'The next thing I can remember is hovering 10ft in the air
in the corner of the ceiling, looking down at myself on the hospital bed. I
could see lots of people rushing in and out of the room.
'Then suddenly my wife was leaving.
'I was not in pain and couldn’t understand what all the fuss
was about. I remember thinking: ‘That’s nice, Nicole’s abandoning me.’
Then I felt a sting in my neck, as though vinegar was being
poured into my artery, and suddenly I came to again. Things slowly came back
into focus.
'I made a full recovery.
I later found out that magnesium had been injected into my
neck as a last resort.
My wife told me they’d been moments from performing a
tracheotomy when I suddenly started breathing again.
Strange dream as my heart stopped
Carol Paradise had a near death experience in hospital in
January 2013
Carol Paradise, 71, a former mayor of Bath, lives with her
husband David, 75, a retired builder.
They have three children.
She says: 'A year ago, I went into hospital for a
straightforward gallstone operation.
But the gallbladder burst and my organs began to shut down.
'I was unconscious for two days and my heart stopped three
times.
'From those two days, all I can remember, vividly, is the
strangest dream.
My friend Anna was sitting by my bed and I suggested that we
go for a walk in the grounds.
'We came to a circle of grass edged by a low stone wall that
looked down to the sea.
'A group of people joined us and we turned to enter a cave
that led into a black tunnel.
'The group, none of whom I recognised, seemed happy and went
into the tunnel.
'I looked around and Anna had disappeared. At the last
moment, I turned around and went back.
'Then I remember waking up, being rushed along a hospital
corridor and seeing my family around me.
'I made a full recovery eventually and was told I had been
very lucky to survive.'
A vision of nuns at my feet
Gerald Grainger, 69, from South Wales who suffered a near
death experience when he had a heart attack in June last year
Gerald Grainger, 69, lives with his wife Laurel, a retired
sales assistant, in Merthyr Tydfil. They have three grown-up children.
He says: 'I was at home last June when I started feeling
chesty and sweaty. My wife Laurel insisted I called 999.
'In the ambulance, the lovely paramedic, Vanessa, was
talking to me when suddenly I felt myself floating down a square tunnel lit by
a bright shining light.
'I could see four faceless figures, dressed in nun-like habits
with pointy hats, float beside me and there was a feeling of calm, as if I was
suspended in a lovely dream.
'I was looking ahead at what I thought was a large garden
when suddenly everything went into reverse and I was speeding backwards through
the tunnel and I was awake, my face pressed up against the side of the
ambulance with Vanessa saying: ‘Come on Gerald, fight for me, come on.’
'We arrived at the hospital minutes later where I stayed for
six days, after apparently suffering a heart attack and ‘dying’ for five
minutes in the ambulance.
'Vanessa had shocked me with a defibrillator and carried out
CPR until I’d eventually regained consciousness.
'When I returned home, I continued to see visions of those
nuns at the foot of my bed every night for about six weeks, and, strangely,
their presence felt very comforting.
'I used to be afraid of dying alone, but I’m not any more.'
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